Isomo rya 21/21
Urupapuro 2/6: Ingingo A - Intangiriro yo gusubira mu buzima busanzweIngingo A – Intangiriro yo gusubira mu buzima busanzwe
Gusubira mu buzima busanzwe no guhurira mu muryango bisobanura iki?
Ku miryango itegamiye kuri Leta na guverinoma zose, aya mabwiriza y’inzego asobanura kongera kwishyira hamwe:
“Inzira yumwana watandukanijwe ukora ibiteganijwe ko ari inzibacyuho ihoraho gusubira mumuryango we ndetse nabaturage (ubusanzwe bakomoka), kugirango ubone uburinzi no kwitabwaho no gushaka imyumvire nintego mubice byose byubuzima.”
Muri iki cyiciro, twibanda ku gusobanukirwa no gutegura gahunda yo guhura mumuryango n’ababyeyi cyangwa abavandimwe. Ubundi buryo bwo kongera kwishyira hamwe mubaturage ni:
- Umwana cyangwa urubyiruko barashobora gushyirwa hamwe nababyeyi ba SOS muburere bwaho (iyi ngingo ikubiye mu isomo rya 20)
- Umusore arashobora kuva mubyitaho agatangira kwigenga atuye mubaturage (iyi ngingo ikubiye mumasomo 14 na 15)
- Umwana arashobora kurerwa byemewe numuryango waho. Ubu buryo ntabwo bukoreshwa na SOSCV.
Kuki kongera kwishyira hamwe kwabana nurubyiruko byihutirwa?
Hamwe ningamba nshya za SOSCV 2030 zo kongera guhuza abana muri societe, hakoreshwa uburyo bushingiye kubana. Ingamba n’ibyingenzi byihutirwa ni ukureba niba uburenganzira bw’umwana ku mico gakondo, umuryango, ndetse n’imbuga rusange.
Mu bihe byashize, abana n’urubyiruko mu midugudu itekanye barindwaga ingaruka z’umuryango no guta abana. Gukunda amarangamutima yabo kwari kubabyeyi babo ba SOS ndetse nabandi bana murugo rwabo. Ndashimira Ababyeyi n’abarimu, ibisubizo biratsinda cyane.
Kuki noneho, kongera kwishyira hamwe birakenewe? Nubwo icyitegererezo cyumudugudu cyateje imbere iterambere ryabana kumatsinda mato yabana, ntabwo byashimangiye ubushobozi bwabaturage baho kwita kubana bose. Nanone, ababyeyi ba SOS n’abana bakunze kwitandukanya n’umuryango wabo. Ku barangije kwita ku rubyiruko, kongera kwiyunga na bene wabo ndetse n’ubuzima muri sosiyete byari ikibazo nyuma yo gukurira ahantu hizewe.
Umuyobozi w’umudugudu w’igihugu cya Etiyopiya, Sahlemariam Abebe, asobanura icyambere: “Umubare w’abana bafite ibyago uragenda wiyongera, kubera imihindagurikire y’ikirere n’ibindi bibazo. Aho kugirango ibisubizo bihenze kubana bake bonyine, tugomba guha imbaraga societe yacu muri rusange – nubwo ibi bivuze ko hari amahame yo hasi kuri buri mwana”. Kubikora bisaba guhindura imitekerereze igoye kuri bose: “Uyu munsi, ababyeyi-kuri -risk muri societe batekereza ko Umudugudu ariwo muti mwiza kumwana wabo. SOS Ababyeyi bafite ubwoba bwo kwimuka, kandi bagomba guhuza numuco nururimi rwaho. Abana n’urubyiruko bakunda cyane ba nyina. Mubisanzwe bafite ubwoba bwo gutandukana na ba nyina
Ikiganiro mu matsinda iminota 15:
- Ni ibihe bitekerezo byacu bya mbere bijyanye no kongera kwishyira hamwe?
- Ni izihe nyungu n’imbogamizi dushobora kubona muri iki gikorwa?
- Nyamuneka wemeze kubintu bitatu aho uzakenera inkunga yubuyobozi.
Ni ubuhe buryo bushingiye ku bana bwo guhurira mu muryango?
Uburyo bushingiye ku bana bivuze ko amajwi y’abana n’urubyiruko barerwa agomba kumvikana mu byiciro byose, kuva imyiteguro kugeza kubana na bene wabo. Bagomba kuba abitabiriye amahugurwa bafite uruhare runini kuri gahunda zose no gufata ibyemezo. By’umwihariko, bagomba kugira ijambo mu gusimbuza amarangamutima yabo na SOS Mama n’inshuti zabo mu Mudugudu, kugira ngo bashireho imigereka mishya itekanye na bene wabo ndetse n’abaturanyi. Mugihe witaweho, hagomba gushyirwaho ingufu zo gukurikirana no guhuza bene wabo.
Ku myaka 34 y’amavuko, Eschalew wahoze ari umwana wo mu Mudugudu ubu ni umucuruzi watsinze. Aracyibuka ububabare buturuka kumigenzo ya kera yumudugudu aho bene wabo batemerewe kumusura. Nyuma, umuryango we washoboraga kumusura isaha imwe mukwezi. Tigist – ubu ufite imyaka 25 – yari muto, kandi yishimiraga kubona bene wabo igihe cyose yamaze mu Mudugudu.
Amahame ane ayobora yo guhuza umuryango neza
Mu bushakashatsi bw’Afurika ndetse n’amahanga, muri make imico y’ingenzi y’imibanire y’abana n’umugereka ku barezi. Uko iyo mico isohozwa mugihe cyubwana, niko umwana arushaho gutsinda mubukure – muburezi, ubumenyi bwa buri munsi, nubushobozi bwo gukora imbuga nkoranyambaga. Amahame ane arashobora kuyobora akazi kacu muguhindura ubuzima bwumudugudu tugahura na bene wabo. Mubikorwa, abana bakeneye:
- Kumara igihe kirekire amarangamutima kumurezi, no gufasha kwimukira mubindi.
- Ba umunyamuryango wemewe mumatsinda mashya y’urungano.
- Umwana n’abarezi bayo bagomba gukora kandi babimenyeshejwe abitabiriye amahugurwa. Hagomba kubaho amasezerano hagati yuwo mwana afitanye isano, nabafata ibyemezo mubuzima bwayo: Abayobozi, Ababyeyi ba SOS, ababyeyi n’abavandimwe, abarimu bigisha, nabaturage.
Ikiganiro mu matsinda iminota 20:
- Nyamuneka muganire: nigute dushobora gukoresha aya mabwiriza muri gahunda yacu yo kongera kwishyira hamwe?